Sometime, Everything mean nothing Nothing mean everything Just try to understand it,ok? ^^
Saturday, 4 July 2009
Look at a thing from many perspective
Monday, 22 June 2009
Friday, 19 June 2009
How to minimize the hurt of the person when you reject him/her?
Do you think it does work?
Logically, it's not work because that person will think you reject him/her is because of the ,reasons so they will try to overcome the reasons you do give them.
Due to rule of "No Sacrifice No Value", this might be made the feeling toward you become more strong.
Actually we can no need to figure the way to reject the persons who like us because they like us is non of our business as long as they don't disturb our life.
If you think this will bring you some stress, maybe you can try this way:
Tell the person the truth with the rule by him. For example, when the person has told you he/she like you, you might ask him/her "How do you know you like me?". If he/she answer because he/she has the feeling with you. Then you can say " Sorry then because I don't have the feeling with you and I hope our friendship will not break because of this."
There are a lot ways but this is one of the simple, fast and useful way.
Sunday, 14 June 2009
Should Say I Love You Before Know One Love You Or Not
Saturday, 6 June 2009
How to be calm?
Tell you what, we as human being cannot stay calm all the time.
Then how about we try to stay calm? Can we do it just like what we want?
If you think someone who can do it must be a cold blooded person, then you're wrong.
Nobody can stay calm all the time, those people who look like can stay calm have emotional also.
Then how come they can stay calm all the time?
They're not staying calm all the time but they just avoid to be too emotional.
I know there are two ways to do this:
1) The persons always tell themselves must be stay calm
- The person who choose this way mostly look like cold blooded person because they're always asking themselves to be stay calm so must look like emotionless.
2) The persons always notice the change of their emotional
- This kind of persons look like just a normal person but they always notice the change of their emotional to avoid to be too emotional but this can make the persons cannot really focus on the work.
Stay calm is not bad things but maybe sometime we should let's following our own emotional since we are human being we need to relax sometime.
Saturday, 23 May 2009
If you love someone, do you think must be together with her/him?
Please don't tell me, I just want she/he to be happy and the less is not important?
Tell you what, this is a answer from a person who prefer to cheat themselves and others.
I have question here, if you love someone, what do you wish you can do for her/him or what she/he will get?
You wish she/he can be happy always , she/he never get hurt, you can protect her/him from getting hurt, you can always bring her/him the happiness and so on right?
Now my question is how can you do that?
Wishing her/him can find someone who love her/him so much and do the job that you wish you can do for her/him?
The question here is why don't you get her/him heart and do all those you hope you can do for her/him by yourself?
Don't you think this is more safety than you hope someone else do for you?
How much do you understand that person who together with her/him?
Can you believe that person will love the one you love forever and more than you?
I'm telling you here, if you really love someone don't let she/he go away from you, you are the only one you can trust on except you aren't sure then you should let her/him go.
You can choose to love or not, you have choice. Maybe this post can help you make choice, Take a look : YOUR CHOICE
Saturday, 16 May 2009
What do make our Self-Confidence decrease?
For me, Self-Confidence means the inner feeling of without doubt with yourself.
Do you doubt with yourself for anything decision or anything?
Do you know the factors make our Self-Confidence keep on decreasing?
The main factors are you are scared of something and you think you're wrong.
When you feel fearful to do something you never can do it well.
When you feel you are guilty you also cannot make it as well as you can.
Tell you what, you never you never know so don't afraid of the result.
Try your best to to do everything you can, don't give up even though the result is not good, at least you have experience and learn new things.
And there are a lot of things never have wrong or right so don't feel guilty.
I'm not telling you to do the bad thing without feeling guilty.
What I do mean are:
1) If you feel fear, try to do the preparation as well as you can. If you have prepaid well then no need to feel fearful
2)If you do nothing wrong then don't feel guilty, and if you don't want to feel guilty then never do the wrong things.
3)Don't feel guilty and fearful with what you did before, remember everyone make mistake because we are all human being.
Honestly, I'm also someone lack of self-confidence so let's work hard and have a positive thinking to overcome the reason make us stop to be self-confidence together.
Wednesday, 13 May 2009
No Sacrifice No Value
It do mean if you never sacrifice for a thing you will never feel it's high value.
It's true for almost everything and everyone, Love, Work, Study and so on.
I don't mean that it's good thing to sacrifice, but it's reason why sometime you feel something is very important for you and even sometime you feel you love a girl so much.
Remember this sentence, " No Sacrifice No Value". It's very important in our life.
Tell you what, there is a technique can help you win a girlfriend/boyfriend from this sentence. Maybe you can try to figure out yourself. Good Luck.
Monday, 11 May 2009
Conditional Happiness And Unconditional Happiness
Do you know what mean by conditional happiness and unconditional happiness?
Let me explain first:
*Conditional happiness
It mean your happiness is from you get what were you wishing for. For example, if you hope to get a car, you will be happy after have a new car, right?
*Unconditional happiness
If you realise that happiness is your birthright which you could experience happiness independent of the external conditions of your life then that's called unconditional happiness.
So do you think your happiness is unconditional happines?
And which one do you prefer?
Honestly I hope my happiness is unconditional happiness but it isn't mabye because I'm greedy.
I will try to explain more detail about unconditional happiness if I feel like to write it out ^^
Sunday, 10 May 2009
True Love (Unconditional Love) , False Love (Conditional Love) , Empty Love (Unconditional Love), Mix Love (Conditional Love).
Do you know what are differences between True Love (Unconditional Love) , False Love (Conditional Love) , Empty Love (Unconditional Love), Mix Love (Conditional Love) and the meanings of them?
Maybe you have the different thought about them.
But the meanings of them here are:
True Love (Unconditional Love)
True Love means you love someone you really love her/him without care about her/his personality and what she/he had done before. Most of the time you are following your feeling, but when you use your logic to think about it you will feel that she/he is not the one you love.
False Love (Conditional Love)
False Love is meant you love someone with condition. For example, a girl love a guy because the guy is rich but with no feeling with that guy. That's meant you never have the feeling with the one you together with her/him and when the reasons for you to love her/him are disappeared you will never love her/him anymore.
Empty Love (Unconditional Love)
When you love someone with no feeling and with no reason that is called Empty Love. That is a chance for you get the True Love if the person is really love you. But that is also a chance for you to get the False Love.
Mix Love (Conditional Love)
When you have a feeling with a person you together with but with reasons that's called Mix Love. The difference between False Love and Mix love is when the reasons for you to love her/him are disappeared, you might still together with her/him. At that time, we can say that you get your True Love.
Honestly, I fall into the group of Mix Love even though I prefer to get into group of True Love because I'm sure that the one I have real feeling of True Love with her never love me even in the future. Hopefully when the time when the reasons for me to love the one have disappeared I will still able get the True Love.
Saturday, 9 May 2009
What do you need to take in as consideration when you wanna make someone fall in love with you?
- The personality of the person
Are you hoping someone fall in love with you without understand her/his personality?
Do someone will like you if you never understand what she/he like?
Impossible right?
- Timing
Do you think someone will like the person who like to keep on bother him/her when he/she is busy?
Will you laugh at someone you like when he/she is unhappy?
Do you like?
- Place
Do you think you are willing to go somewhere you don't like doing something you like it so much?
Will you eating with someone you like beside the place full of rubbish?
Of course you will never like that?
- Yourself
What do you think happen if you haven't prepaid well to meet someone you like?
Do you think you can perform well in front of her/him without preparation?
Don't you very sure you should prepay well?
- So on..
Maybe you have known these factors already but are you really doing it when you wanna make someone fall in love with you?
Practice but not only know it.
Above is only some example only, there more you should know?
You can also ask for my suggestion if you want even though I'm still far from become a professional
Monday, 4 May 2009
21 Golden Rules For Everyday Life
2) Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3) Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
17) Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others;and responsibility for all your actions.
20) Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
Language I Love You
Afrikaans
Ek is lief vir jou
Alsacien
Ich hoan dich gear
Albanian
Te dashoroj
Algerian
Kanbghik
Alsatian
Ich hoan dich gear
Amharic
Afekrishalehou
Sheth she'n zho'n
Arabic
Ana hebbek
Yar ounenal
Assamese
Moi tomak bhal pau
I hab di gean
Bangladeshi
Ami tomake walobashi
Nere maitea
Batak
Holong rohangku di ho
I mog di narrisch gern
Bengali
Ami tomAybhAlobAshi
Lakh tirikh
Bicol
Namumutan ta ka
Qanta munani
Bosnian
Volim te
Obicham te
Burmese
Chi pa de
Bon sro lanh oon
Canadian French
Sh'teme
Ngo ai ni
Catalan
T'estim
Gihigugma ko ikaw
Chamoru
Hu guaiya hao
Ndimakukonda
Chickasaw
Chiholloli
Wo ay ni (æˆ‘çˆ±ä½ )
Corsican
Ti tengu cara
Mi aime jou
Croatian
Ja te volim
Jeg elsker dig
Dutch
Ik hou van je
Canda munani
English
I Love You
Mi amas vin
Estonian
Mina armastan sind
Afgreki
Farsi
Tora dost daram
Mahal Kita
Finnish
Rakastan sinua
Ik hou van jou
French
Je t'aime
Ik hou fan dei
Gaelic
Ta gra agam ort
Me dor wo
German
Ich liebe Dich
Eime eroteumos mazi sou
Greenlandic
Asavakit
Ik hol van die
Gujrati
Hoon tane pyar karoochhoon
Ina sonki
Hawaiian
Aloha wau ia oe
Ani ohev otach
Hindi
Mai tumase pyar karata hun
Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Hungarian
Szeretlek
Eg elska thig
Ilocano
Ay ayating ka
Saya kasih saudari
Italian
ti amo
Taim i' ngra leat
Japanese
Anata wo aishite-imasu
Kulo tresno
Kannada
Naanu ninnanu preethisuthene
Mono ke zola nge
Kiswahili
Nakupenda
SoHvaD vIghajtaH bang
Korean
Tangsinul sarang ha yo
Ez te hezdikhem
Laotian
Khoi huk chau
Te amo
Latvian
Es tevi milu
Bahibak
Lingala
Nalingi yo
Gramo-te bue', chavalinha!
Lithuanian
Tave myliu
Mi do prami
Luo
Aheri
Ech hun dech gaer
Maltese
Inhobbok
Te sakam
Madrid lingo
Me molas, Tronca!
Wa wa
Malay
Saya cintamu
Ngan ninne snaehikkunnu
Malagasy
Tiaka ianao
Saya Cintamu
Marathi
Mi tuzya var prem karato
Konoronhkwa
Moroccan
Kanbhik
Be Chamad Hairtai
Navaho
Ayor anosh'ni
Niyakutanda
Nepali
Ma Timi Lai Maya Garchu
Jin Chanta Tasakan Matinaa Yana
Norwegian
Jeg elsker deg
Op lopveop yopuop
Osetian
Aez dae warzyn
Mujhe tumse muhabbat hai
Persian
Tora dost daram
Ie ovele ouye
Pilipino
Mahal kita
Kocham ciebie
Portuguese
Eu amo-te
Main tainu pyar karna
Quenya
Tye-mela'ne
Te iubesc
Russian
Ya lioubliou tiebia
Ou te alofa outou
Sanskrit
Anugrag
Tha gradh agam ort
Serbian
Ja vas volim
Volim te
Shona
Ndinokuda
Mama oyaata aadareyi
Sioux
Techihhila
Lubim ta
Slovene
Ljubim te
Te quiero
Sinhalese
Mama oyata aadarei
Nakupenda
Swedish
Jag älskar dig
Ch'ha di ga"rn
Syrian
Bhebbek
Mahal kita
Tahitian
Ua here au ia oe
Naan unnai kadalikiren
Telugu
Ninnu premistunnanu
Phom rak khun
Tunisian
Ha eh bakn
Seni seviyorum
Ukrainia
Ya tebe kokhaïou
Seretlek
Urdu
Main tumse muhabbat karta hoon
Anh yêu em
Vlaams
Ik hou van jou
Wani ra yana ro aisha
Welsh
Rwy'n dy garu di
Da ma la nope
Yiddish
Ikh hob dikh lib
'in k'aatech
Yugo-Slavian
Ya te volim
Kenkamken
Zazi
Ezhele hezdege
Mena tanda wena
Zuni
Tom ho' ichema
Tuesday, 28 April 2009
Have Fun With A Game, Pictures and so on - Choose One Of Them
Click The Picture of a game to start.
Optical Illusions
The best optical illusion pictures, click the picture to start.
Find It
A game of skill and great vision. Can you find a needle in a haystack?
The Ultimate Maze
The Ultimate Maze. Try navigating the maze without touching the walls.
The Maze
How good you skill in using mouse?
Super Mario Bros
Let's play Super Mario Bros. Relive and play this Nintendo classic!
Hit the Dot
Hit the dot! Can you hit the fast moving dot?
Compare the two pictures
Compare these two photos side by side and see if you can spot all the things that are wrong.
The TicTacToe
See whether you can beat the computer.
The Bubble Wrap Maniac
How fast you can do it.
The Hallowen Pictures
The funniest Halloween pictures! Have you seen them all?
Jessica Alba
A gorgeous picture of Jessica Alba with little clothes on.
Megan Fox Topless
Private topless picture of Megan Fox! exclusive!
Help Find the Missing Dog
Help find this missing dog!
Snowman Snowglobe
The snowman in a snow globe classic. Shake him and watch him get sick!
Kikia
Kikia is a day dreaming kid.
Jingle Bells Reversed
An extract from "Jingle Bells" played in reverse. Is there a hidden message?
My Rules of Love
Do you believe something like this..
'This is a mathematical challenge, and it's been said that: If you're an engineer, you should be able to solve it in (under) three minutes (more like 30 seconds), if you're an architect, in three hours; if you're a doctor, in six hours; if you're an accountant, in three months and if you're a lawyer, probably never. if you're good at math or logical problems, solve this challenge and the answer is the password to open the spreadsheet to which you can add your name to the hall of fame. What is the missing number in this logical series? 1, 2, 6, 42, 1806, ____???
The answer is the password to open the spreadsheet that is attached to this email. If you figure it out, open the spreadsheet, type your name in, save it and resend it to your friends. Good luck"
Do you believe this?
I don't believe....
The question is very easy for a lot of people.....
For those who want this email or answer you can get it from me .
Download the file
Sunday, 26 April 2009
Do you use logic or feel in love?
A lot of people think that we should use feel to love but not logic.
But is it true? Is it possible we use our logic to love?
At least for me, it's possible to use logic to love..
Maybe this kind of love cannot have the higher feeling of happy like the person who use feel to love.
But it will be more safety if we use logic to love , do you know why?
There are some reasons here:
~We will get what do we really want in love because we have made sure he/she is the one we really want before fall in love.
~Maybe we no need to spend too much to find our soul mate
~We will not get too hurt if break up with our boyfriend/girlfriend because we haven't got too deep before we make sure he/she is the one in our life.
~I think you can figure the others reasons already....
I am person prefer to use logic to love but sometime I cannot control my feeling very well, many my EQ is still not good enough.
What kind of person are you?
Friday, 6 February 2009
When we should be confident?
Monday, 2 February 2009
Sometime I will ask myself why I always look backward...Why?
Most of the time it make me feel blue.
It hurts my heart sometime.
I know I should look forward and forget the pass.
But from sister's story, so many years before she didn't have any special feeling with her boyfriend but she still accept him and be his girlfriend, and now she do really love her boyfriend so much.
So, do you think I should give up if I love a girl but she like some else?
Logically, I should give up.
But how if I really like her so much, and maybe there is a miracle happen?
I ever think that I will not be controlled by my feeling but look like I'm wrong, is it?
Anyway, I think I should learn how to be more cool then I would be controlled by my feeling anymore.
I believe I only will say something like this when I'm sad and after this everything will be fine, right? ^^ Maybe smile can make me forget the sadness..^^
Monday, 19 January 2009
What would you do when you need to face difficult problem?
Would you try to solve it?
For how much time?
After sometime if you still can't solve it, what would you do?
Would you give up?
I would like to say that I had ever given up for so many time before this.
Did I ever regret for it?
My answer is of course yes.
But the word "if" is never would be happen, the time would never return to before.
Now, I realize that sometime some of the problem that we feel it's very difficult is actually very easy when we do understand it.
I hope I will never repeat this kind of mistake again.
I don't want to miss something very important and special or even I never will have the change to have it again just because lazy or other stupid reason.
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