Do you think if you love someone then you must be together with her/him?Please don't tell me, I just want she/he to be happy and the less is not important?
Tell you what, this is a answer from a person who prefer to cheat themselves and others.
I have question here, if you love someone, what do you wish you can do for her/him or what she/he will get?
You wish she/he can be happy always , she/he never get hurt, you can protect her/him from getting hurt, you can always bring her/him the happiness and so on right?
Now my question is how can you do that?
Wishing her/him can find someone who love her/him so much and do the job that you wish you can do for her/him?
The question here is why don't you get her/him heart and do all those you hope you can do for her/him by yourself?
Don't you think this is more safety than you hope someone else do for you?
How much do you understand that person who together with her/him?
Can you believe that person will love the one you love forever and more than you?
I'm telling you here, if you really love someone don't let she/he go away from you, you are the only one you can trust on except you aren't sure then you should let her/him go.
You can choose to love or not, you have choice. Maybe this post can help you make choice, Take a look : YOUR CHOICE
5 comments:
haha~i hv different point of view here.
1st of all,when u love someone,its doesnt sure tat he/she will love u as well.
to ensure tat she is happy,u must knw to care abt her right?
if she is ard happy wit wat she has,she may hv bf,o even family,should u go n woo her?
2ndly,the simple love to somebody is more than enough,if she is no longer smiling when with u,wat will u do?do u hear tat the way to love is to let go?
okay,u r right tat v will totally wish to get along wit our love 1,but knwing to let go doesnt mean u dont love.
haha,mayb i m the weird one.
^^ I understand your point but actually what I mean here doesn't mean don't care she feeling .First, if you love someone and wanna her to love you and happy, there are ways to make her fall in love with you and happy , it's only matter you know or not, if don't know then maybe you should go to find out.Second, sorry for only mention what you can do if you cannot ensure she is happy at the last part, if you can ensure she is happy then you should give up or not? That is depend on yourself . But tell you what, there are also ways to make your feeling with someone disappeared (feeling here do mean feeling of fall in love with her) so I will recommend give up.Third, for me love is not guilty so can let anyone know no need to keep as secret so I leave questions for you here since you say let go is one way of love. You don't need to tell me your answer.My questions: If you love someone and you let her go, can you let boyfriend/ husband know that you are still loving her when you meet them? How are going to face them if they know? Do you think it will not affect the relationship if her boyfriend/husband know this? If this will affect their relationship is one way of love?
This is what I wanna add to post since my post is not clear because lazy person has lazy hand ^^ Thank you for let me know my post is not clear.^^
to me,love means love,all going at ease n natural.
loving someone is not a bad stuff,i admit if i love.
let go means will no longer pursuiting,so wats wrong?i jus mean tat love her doesnt mean to own her.
okay,i m not to argue anymore.u r good in yr way,love can b simple.
Thank you but I didn't to argue but is to share idea.
If you love someone and she/he love you too but no suitable to be together due to some reason, better consider properly before you regret.
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