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How to minimize the hurt of the person when you reject him/her?

A lot of people think it can reduce the hurt to the person by give them some reasons.

Do you think it does work?

Logically, it's not work because that person will think you reject him/her is because of the ,reasons so they will try to overcome the reasons you do give them.

Due to rule of "No Sacrifice No Value", this might be made the feeling toward you become more strong.

Actually we can no need to figure the way to reject the persons who like us because they like us is non of our business as long as they don't disturb our life.

If you think this will bring you some stress, maybe you can try this way:

Tell the person the truth with the rule by him. For example, when the person has told you he/she like you, you might ask him/her "How do you know you like me?". If he/she answer because he/she has the feeling with you. Then you can say " Sorry then because I don't have the feeling with you and I hope our friendship will not break because of this."

There are a lot ways but this is one of the simple, fast and useful way.

Should Say I Love You Before Know One Love You Or Not

People always say we need to say I Love You when you love someone and mean it. But should you tell a person you like before she/he like you or love you.

Here is my suggestion only:

Never say "I Love You" to someone you love before sure she/he like/love you

Why?

Because she/he will only feel pressure if she/he haven't fallen in love with you.

It's difference when you say I Love You to someone love you. But maybe there are some special cases.

How to be calm?

As a human being, we all have emotional, do you think we can stay calm all the time especial facing someone is important to you?

Tell you what, we as human being cannot stay calm all the time.

Then how about we try to stay calm? Can we do it just like what we want?

If you think someone who can do it must be a cold blooded person, then you're wrong.

Nobody can stay calm all the time, those people who look like can stay calm have emotional also.

Then how come they can stay calm all the time?

They're not staying calm all the time but they just avoid to be too emotional.

I know there are two ways to do this:

1) The persons always tell themselves must be stay calm

- The person who choose this way mostly look like cold blooded person because they're always asking themselves to be stay calm so must look like emotionless.


2) The persons always notice the change of their emotional

- This kind of persons look like just a normal person but they always notice the change of their emotional to avoid to be too emotional but this can make the persons cannot really focus on the work.


Stay calm is not bad things but maybe sometime we should let's following our own emotional since we are human being we need to relax sometime.

If you love someone, do you think must be together with her/him?

Do you think if you love someone then you must be together with her/him?

Please don't tell me, I just want she/he to be happy and the less is not important?

Tell you what, this is a answer from a person who prefer to cheat themselves and others.

I have question here, if you love someone, what do you wish you can do for her/him or what she/he will get?

You wish she/he can be happy always , she/he never get hurt, you can protect her/him from getting hurt, you can always bring her/him the happiness and so on right?

Now my question is how can you do that?

Wishing her/him can find someone who love her/him so much and do the job that you wish you can do for her/him?

The question here is why don't you get her/him heart and do all those you hope you can do for her/him by yourself?

Don't you think this is more safety than you hope someone else do for you?

How much do you understand that person who together with her/him?

Can you believe that person will love the one you love forever and more than you?

I'm telling you here, if you really love someone don't let she/he go away from you, you are the only one you can trust on except you aren't sure then you should let her/him go.

You can choose to love or not, you have choice. Maybe this post can help you make choice, Take a look : YOUR CHOICE

What do make our Self-Confidence decrease?

What is Self-Confidence meant for you?

For me, Self-Confidence means the inner feeling of without doubt with yourself.




















Do you doubt with yourself for anything decision or anything?

Do you know the factors make our Self-Confidence keep on decreasing?

The main factors are you are scared of something and you think you're wrong.

When you feel fearful to do something you never can do it well.

When you feel you are guilty you also cannot make it as well as you can.
















Tell you what, you never you never know so don't afraid of the result.

Try your best to to do everything you can, don't give up even though the result is not good, at least you have experience and learn new things.

And there are a lot of things never have wrong or right so don't feel guilty.

I'm not telling you to do the bad thing without feeling guilty.


What I do mean are:

1) If you feel fear, try to do the preparation as well as you can. If you have prepaid well then no need to feel fearful

2)If you do nothing wrong then don't feel guilty, and if you don't want to feel guilty then never do the wrong things.

3)Don't feel guilty and fearful with what you did before, remember everyone make mistake because we are all human being.

Honestly, I'm also someone lack of self-confidence so let's work hard and have a positive thinking to overcome the reason make us stop to be self-confidence together.

No Sacrifice No Value

What do "No Sacrifice No Value" mean? Do you really know?

It do mean if you never sacrifice for a thing you will never feel it's high value.

It's true for almost everything and everyone, Love, Work, Study and so on.

I don't mean that it's good thing to sacrifice, but it's reason why sometime you feel something is very important for you and even sometime you feel you love a girl so much.

Remember this sentence, " No Sacrifice No Value". It's very important in our life.

Tell you what, there is a technique can help you win a girlfriend/boyfriend from this sentence. Maybe you can try to figure out yourself. Good Luck.