If you love someone, do you think must be together with her/him?

Do you think if you love someone then you must be together with her/him?

Please don't tell me, I just want she/he to be happy and the less is not important?

Tell you what, this is a answer from a person who prefer to cheat themselves and others.

I have question here, if you love someone, what do you wish you can do for her/him or what she/he will get?

You wish she/he can be happy always , she/he never get hurt, you can protect her/him from getting hurt, you can always bring her/him the happiness and so on right?

Now my question is how can you do that?

Wishing her/him can find someone who love her/him so much and do the job that you wish you can do for her/him?

The question here is why don't you get her/him heart and do all those you hope you can do for her/him by yourself?

Don't you think this is more safety than you hope someone else do for you?

How much do you understand that person who together with her/him?

Can you believe that person will love the one you love forever and more than you?

I'm telling you here, if you really love someone don't let she/he go away from you, you are the only one you can trust on except you aren't sure then you should let her/him go.

You can choose to love or not, you have choice. Maybe this post can help you make choice, Take a look : YOUR CHOICE

What do make our Self-Confidence decrease?

What is Self-Confidence meant for you?

For me, Self-Confidence means the inner feeling of without doubt with yourself.




















Do you doubt with yourself for anything decision or anything?

Do you know the factors make our Self-Confidence keep on decreasing?

The main factors are you are scared of something and you think you're wrong.

When you feel fearful to do something you never can do it well.

When you feel you are guilty you also cannot make it as well as you can.
















Tell you what, you never you never know so don't afraid of the result.

Try your best to to do everything you can, don't give up even though the result is not good, at least you have experience and learn new things.

And there are a lot of things never have wrong or right so don't feel guilty.

I'm not telling you to do the bad thing without feeling guilty.


What I do mean are:

1) If you feel fear, try to do the preparation as well as you can. If you have prepaid well then no need to feel fearful

2)If you do nothing wrong then don't feel guilty, and if you don't want to feel guilty then never do the wrong things.

3)Don't feel guilty and fearful with what you did before, remember everyone make mistake because we are all human being.

Honestly, I'm also someone lack of self-confidence so let's work hard and have a positive thinking to overcome the reason make us stop to be self-confidence together.

No Sacrifice No Value

What do "No Sacrifice No Value" mean? Do you really know?

It do mean if you never sacrifice for a thing you will never feel it's high value.

It's true for almost everything and everyone, Love, Work, Study and so on.

I don't mean that it's good thing to sacrifice, but it's reason why sometime you feel something is very important for you and even sometime you feel you love a girl so much.

Remember this sentence, " No Sacrifice No Value". It's very important in our life.

Tell you what, there is a technique can help you win a girlfriend/boyfriend from this sentence. Maybe you can try to figure out yourself. Good Luck.

Conditional Happiness And Unconditional Happiness

Do you know what mean by conditional happiness and unconditional happiness?

Let me explain first:

*Conditional happiness
It mean your happiness is from you get what were you wishing for. For example, if you hope to get a car, you will be happy after have a new car, right?




*Unconditional happiness
If you realise that happiness is your birthright which you could experience happiness independent of the external conditions of your life then that's called unconditional happiness.

So do you think your happiness is unconditional happines?

And which one do you prefer?

Honestly I hope my happiness is unconditional happiness but it isn't mabye because I'm greedy.

I will try to explain more detail about unconditional happiness if I feel like to write it out ^^

True Love (Unconditional Love) , False Love (Conditional Love) , Empty Love (Unconditional Love), Mix Love (Conditional Love).

Do you know what are differences between True Love (Unconditional Love) , False Love (Conditional Love) , Empty Love (Unconditional Love), Mix Love (Conditional Love) and the meanings of them?

Maybe you have the different thought about them.

But the meanings of them here are:

True Love (Unconditional Love)

True Love means you love someone you really love her/him without care about her/his personality and what she/he had done before. Most of the time you are following your feeling, but when you use your logic to think about it you will feel that she/he is not the one you love.

False Love (Conditional Love)

False Love is meant you love someone with condition. For example, a girl love a guy because the guy is rich but with no feeling with that guy. That's meant you never have the feeling with the one you together with her/him and when the reasons for you to love her/him are disappeared you will never love her/him anymore.

Empty Love (Unconditional Love)

When you love someone with no feeling and with no reason that is called Empty Love. That is a chance for you get the True Love if the person is really love you. But that is also a chance for you to get the False Love.

Mix Love (Conditional Love)

When you have a feeling with a person you together with but with reasons that's called Mix Love. The difference between False Love and Mix love is when the reasons for you to love her/him are disappeared, you might still together with her/him. At that time, we can say that you get your True Love.

Honestly, I fall into the group of Mix Love even though I prefer to get into group of True Love because I'm sure that the one I have real feeling of True Love with her never love me even in the future. Hopefully when the time when the reasons for me to love the one have disappeared I will still able get the True Love.

What do you need to take in as consideration when you wanna make someone fall in love with you?

Most of the people only wish for know the ways of make someone fall in love with you. This kind of stuff you can easily find at any website.

Don't believe?

You can try to click on the title of this post or here then you will be able to see how much websites and books have talking about this topic?

Besides that, I also have some E-book about this but I didn't really go through it, if you want you can get it from me.

But do you know what do you need to take in as consideration when you wanna make someone fall in love with you?

From my opinion, you able to figure the ways of making someone fall in you by yourself if you know what should you take as consideration.

Do you agree with me?

Then what should you take as consideration?

This are four main factors you must take as consideration.

• The personality of the person

Are you hoping someone fall in love with you without understand her/his personality?

Do someone will like you if you never understand what she/he like?

Impossible right?

• Timing

Do you think someone will like the person who like to keep on bother him/her when he/she is busy?

Will you laugh at someone you like when he/she is unhappy?

Do you like?

• Place

Do you think you are willing to go somewhere you don't like doing something you like it so much?

Will you eating with someone you like beside the place full of rubbish?

Of course you will never like that?

• Yourself

What do you think happen if you haven't prepaid well to meet someone you like?

Do you think you can perform well in front of her/him without preparation?

Don't you very sure you should prepay well?

• So on..

Maybe you have known these factors already but are you really doing it when you wanna make someone fall in love with you?

Practice but not only know it.

Above is only some example only, there more you should know?

You can also ask for my suggestion if you want even though I'm still far from become a professional

21 Golden Rules For Everyday Life

1) Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

2) Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

3) Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

4) When you say, "I love you," mean it.

5) When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye.

6) Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

7) Believe in love at first sight.

8) Never laugh at any one's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

9) Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

10) In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

11) Don't judge people by their relatives.

12) Talk slowly but think quickly.

13) When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

14) Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

15)Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.

16) When you lose, don't lose the lesson

17) Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others;and responsibility for all your actions.

18) Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

19) When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

20) Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

21) Spend some time alone.

A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches yourheart.

Have you understand what each of these rules mean?

I did ^^

Remember to smile and happy always...

Language I Love You

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Ek is lief vir jou

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Ich hoan dich gear

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Wo ay ni （我爱你）

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Ti tengu cara

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Mi aime jou

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Jeg elsker dig

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ti amo

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Ez te hezdikhem

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Khoi huk chau

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Te amo

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Es tevi milu

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Nalingi yo

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Gramo-te bue', chavalinha!

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Tave myliu

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Mi do prami

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Aheri

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Ech hun dech gaer

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Inhobbok

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Te sakam

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Me molas, Tronca!

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Wa wa

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Saya cintamu

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Ngan ninne snaehikkunnu

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Tiaka ianao

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Be Chamad Hairtai

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Ma Timi Lai Maya Garchu

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Jeg elsker deg

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Aez dae warzyn

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Tora dost daram

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Ie ovele ouye

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Kocham ciebie

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Eu amo-te

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Main tainu pyar karna

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Ya lioubliou tiebia

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Ou te alofa outou

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Anugrag

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Tha gradh agam ort

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Ja vas volim

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Volim te

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Mama oyaata aadareyi

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Main tumse muhabbat karta hoon

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Anh yêu em

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Ik hou van jou

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'in k'aatech

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