Mind Mapping - Colours And Words

Read the colours not the words. Read as fast as you can please ^^

REDGREENBLUEYELLOWWHITE
ORANGEGRAYBLACKYELLOW
BLUEGREENREDORANGEWHITE
BLUEWHITEREDGREENPINK

Can you do it? When you can that mean both sides of your brain are active now ^^

That's How Love Is Sometime (real short story)

There was a guy and a girl. They met on badminton court, and the girl made the guy remember her accidently. After the incident, he guy spent a lot of time to think whether he should ask her to be his friend, then he wrote a letter to her for ask her to become his friend. And because of the girl never received such as letter before so they became friends.
After sometime they became a couple but they had broken up after a few months just because the girl felt she didn't love that guy anymore. She thought that guy never wanna send her flowers, love letters, took her to restaurants or spoke of love.
But actually the girl was wrong. She never thought that she never gave him a chance to do those things. She told the guy she didn't like people sending her flowers, that's why the guy never sent her any flowers. Maybe he never sent her any love letter was his fault but he had told the girl how much he love her through the message and he never had the chance to speak of love because he can only met her at school and she never can go out with him alone because of some reason, that's also why he never had the chance to bring her to any restaurants.
The guy also hope he can do more things for her and he tried but failed. He brought an umbrella to school everyday because he was scared of the girl might forget to bring her umbrella when the sky was cloudy. Unfortunely, when he had the chance to do it for her, she said that the guy was so annoying because of doing something like that. And the girl told the guy she like to eat sweets, so the guy bought a lot of sweets for her but she told the guy the timing was wrong.
After they had broken up. The guy never blamed the girl no matter how hurt was him and he wished that they still can be friends but the girl told him don't wanna be friend with him anymore, just treat him as a stranger when she met him on the next time.
If there is a person tell boths of them actually they still love each other and how they tried to love each other maybe the ending will be so different.

If you are the one who get hurt in love,it's alright. Don't be sad anymore and don't give up before you meet "her/him", we need to believe that love will come to us one day.

It will be your if it's yours, otherwise no matter how hard you try the ending will be the same.

What do you think about love?

If you can use your logic to answer this question then your answer will be better than the answer you use your feeling to answer this question.

Below is the article from someone use feeling to explain love (This article is from other website, click on someone for more information):

Love is Not a Feeling. What? You exclaim, of course, love is a feeling. I feel it in my chest, stomach and my body tingles sometimes. Yes, those are the physiological manifestations when one has the sensation of ‘falling in love.’ Falling in love and love are two different phenomena. Falling in love can be either a flash of emotions or a first step towards genuine love.
Falling in love is a strong instinctive attraction to a person. If it is mutual and both people work at their relationship; one day that euphoric experience called, ‘falling in love,’ can grow into genuine love.
The falling in love phenomena is the call of one’s longing to belong, to cathect, but the object is instinctually chosen according to our ideals, dreams and etc., although one may not realize it. We usually fall in love with the person’s appearance, with the way she/he walks, the way he/she talks. Sometimes we impute to our object of love some mystic illusion, ideal qualities and the more we get to know the person the less we fall for him or her. That’s when the feeling of love disappears even faster than it appeared.
The more two persons get to know each other, the more comfortable they get; the less sharp, bright and exciting the falling in love experience is. Some couples continue their relationships and get married; some fall apart. It’s reasonable to say that more clothes in the closet and one more toothbrush in the bathroom is the end of the falling in love phase, but it also can be the beginning of genuine love.
The euphoric feelings we call ‘love’ is the emotion that accompanies the experience of cathecting. Cathecting is the process by which an object becomes important to a person. Once cathected, the object, often referred to as a ‘love object’ is invested with our energy as if it were a part of oneself, and this relationship between oneself and the invested object is called a cathexis. One’s cathexis may be fleeting and momentary. Genuine love implies commitment and exercise of wisdom. When one is concerned for someone’s spiritual and emotional growth, one knows that a lack of commitment is likely to be harmful and that commitment to that person is probably necessary for one to manifest one’s concern effectively. The concern and commitment to another’s spiritual and emotional growth is the purest form of love. It is for this reason that commitment is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship—friends, significant others, husband/wife.
Genuine love transcends the matter of cathexis. When love exists it does so with or without cathexis and with or without a loving feeling—those bursts of butterflies in the stomach, body tingling, etc.
It is easier—indeed, it is exhilarating—to love with cathexis and the euphoric feeling of love. However, it is possible to love without cathexis and without loving feelings, and it is in the fulfillment of this possibility that genuine and transcendent love is distinguished from simple cathexis. Genuine love is volitional rather than euphorically emotional. The person who truly loves does so because of ‘a decision to love.’ This person has made a commitment to ‘be loving,’ whether or not the loving feelings are present.
It can be difficult and painful to search for evidence of love in one’s actions, but because true love is an act of will that transcends ephemeral feelings of love or cathexis, it can be said, “Love is as love does.” Love and non-love, as good and evil, are objective and not purely subjective phenomena.

I don't say that is wrong but for the person who use logic, Love is simple, it just the change of feeling toward someone due to the brain. We need to control it but not be controlled by it.

Different person has different view and explanation for love but most of them affected by their family, friends and so on. They also don't like to use logic think about love. Love for them is a nice and wonderful thing but they forget there are more people get hurt in love then really get their happiness from love.

I'm quite busy during these few weeks because I just started my new life in the Universiti Sains Malaysia which my friend call it "Universiti Sakit Mental"......

And yet I still haven't bought my laptop so I got no chance to online, I write this on library hehe......

Anyway, I still got time to enjoy my life in my new school like hanging out with my new friends, going to swimming, playing basketball....... ^O^......At least now I can, but after this I don't know yet ^^

Last, I hope my life in University can be a part of very wonderful memory in my mind next time.......

How do you fall in love with a girl/guy?

Will you easily fall in love with a girl/guy?

I won't let that happen before the girl is my girlfriend.

But I will easily like a girl.

Have you set the target what kind of girl/guy you will like?

I think most of the people have set the target

I don't wanna do that

Because I don't wanna let the target control my feeling, I wanna control my feeling.

The target only make you become out of control sometime

The target maybe will become your imagination

That's why you will easily fall in love and then you realize that you don't love her/him...

Maybe you're one of the person who has been control by your imagination.

I have already woken up, how about you? ^^

How do you answer and ask?

When someone ask us a question, how do we answer if we don't sure the answer is yes or not?

I prefer to ask the question with a answer with contain yes and no which mean let the person ask me to answer the question.

How do you ask others question when you don't how to ask or daren't to ask?

I like to ask a question which has two or more question inside it. But sometime only one ^^

Have I lain if I do like that? ^^

How about you? Just follow your heart?

Do you really know what kind of lover you do want?

For those who haven't fallen in love, do you really know what kind of lover you do need?

I think you don't know

Because the truth is not you're going love someone you're hoping for, but is the one love you will love make you feeling like you're loving he/she..

You're been controlled by you're imagination.Understand? Never mind, this is just the theory but it's true. ^^

For those who have fall in love, let me ask you a question..

If there is someone who is same with your lover, will you also fall in love with that person?

Answer it, maybe then you will know what mean by love is just feeling.

Do you know when you're more clever?

Some people are more clever when they're facing the dangerous

And some are more clever during doing something they like

And some in other situations

But I think I"m different

I feel like I'm more clever during I'm sleeping

Because during I'm sleeping, that's the time my mind more clear and calm

In my dream, I can solve the problem I can't solve when I'm awake

How about you?

Do you ever think about it?

When you're more clever?

The meaning of "small gas"

Small gas is just meant small gas

But in Chinese "small gas" mean one is getting angry

And in the theory, we say that someone who is angry is "small gas" also don't wrong

Because one is angry will need need more oxygen to calm down, right? ^^

So when one is angry will just need to get more gas to become "big gas" then everything is alright. =D

Warning: Don't be too "big gas" , if not later one can be exploded =b

Next second is unknown

No one know what will happen next second......
Maybe something hurt you so much will happen T.T
Maybe something make you so happy will happen ^_^
Maybe nothing special happen.
But we should try to make a right choice before the "regret" come to find us
Wish everyone won't be too late..
And wish those have gone to heaven can find their happiness on there..

I did the crazy thing just now

After my friend's birthday party, I sent my friends go back to their own house

Then is the time I should go home but I felt like don't wanna go home yet so I turn back and went to buy ice-creams the to my friend because she ever said she wanna eat ice-cream but just didn't go

Sweat, don't why I did the thing like that at the time like this, 1:00 am

Anyway, wish my all friend all sweet dreams come true.....

My friend said it wasn't crazy, maybe hehe......

honest+good=stupid?

Do you think that good+honest=stupid?

I don't really think so because......

First, it's depend who is that guy?
Second, not one is stupid if one know how to use mind
Third, dewy-eyed is not equal to stupid
Fourth, do you think you're clever to say other stupid?

Are those all true?
Actually,I don't know, I just say only because I think I am quite stupid

The LOve mathematics questions.... and..... the answers

These are some special questions...... hehe....

1)Forever+Forever=?

2)Forever+Ever=?

3)Ever+Ever=?

and.....

You know the answers for those question?

I think I know......

The answers

1)Forever

2)Hurt & Ever

3)Ever

and.....

You know what those questions and answers mean?

Try to guess..... If you really wanna know, maybe you can ask me hehe......

But I'm quite stupid haha......

"Study" is a reason? Or it's a excuse?

Last time, when you ask me, when a girl say that she just wanna focus on her study so don't wanna love anyone yet, what's that mean? I think I will tell you she was just trying to reject your love and treat study as an excuse......

But if you ask me the same question now......

I will tell you that, it's mean what she wanna tell you, sometime it's reason or maybe sometime it's a excuse....

I know that I'm wrong last time and I realize it from a girl who so much smaller than me, sound like I'm a bit stupid haha....Anyway I just wanna tell you in my opinion I think that the percentage for it's a excuse is more higher only.....

The background

I just changed my background few days ago......I set some meaning for it......hehe.....






For the header, I put something like have alien there, that's mean there is alien there, me.haha..... You know why? hehe......



Then for my blog, I put some kind of galaxy, that make it feel like in the galaxy so difficult to understand, just like me bluek.....

I think I should think about that what should I put next time ^^

The words make a different

Sometime we don't realize that the simple words we say can make a different, or sometime we know just we don't wanna do it. But have we ever really think about it when we have the choice.

When we have a quarrel with our friends, family or lover, maybe just a few words then you can make it so different like....

I'm sorry, you're right...

It's just that simple, why don't we choose to say it even though sometime we aren't wrong....

>>>>>>

How do know you love him/her or not?

Our mind always is the one control our feeling of love...

But how do we know when we are falling in love?

You can...

Use your eyes to see

Use your mind to think

Use your heart to feel

Use your move to get the proof

Apologise...

I always make mistakes,

And then I always say the word, "sorry"

But sometime I also don't know why I wanna say sorry when don't sure whether that's my mistake

I prefer say it out because not everything we can decide is it wrong or right...but I'm using my heart to apologise..

I like the song, Apologise..

Because it can remind me don't be too late to apologise..

I don't wanna be too late to apologise again..

The feeling of too late is so hurt..

No matter how many "Sorry" you do say..

It's still too late.. It's so hurt..T.T

I know I should forget, but.....

~I know I should forget "it" and just treat "it" as a sweet dream.

But seem like no everything is under control, I can do it for most of the time but not always.

Why? I am so confuse now. Is it I have fallen in love with her? I daren't and don't wanna know.

Anyway I think just treat "it" as a dream is the best way. I believe I can do it if I wanna do it, right? Of course I can do it ^^ haha.....

Waiting.....

I think I lose my mind these few days. I catch no point during these few days, I don't know what am I thinking. haih......

I think I still need some more time to make my mind become normal again. Hopefully the time can help me find myself hehe....... so just waiting lor...

Human being.....

As I know everyone has different kind of mood and feeling in front of different persons, maybe I should say that's not everyone can know other more that oneself but something we also don't know ourself. haha.......

LUCKY & unlucky

In our life maybe sometime there will got the unlucky thing happen on us, but on the other there will got lucky thing happen on us also.

People like lucky things and hate unlucky things, but we need to know life is like that, sometime lucky sometime unlucky.

So we we are unlucky then we need to be brave to face every unlucky things and waiting for the lucky things come to us.